How To Get Over A Break Up - The Secret To Avoid Losing A Woman's Attention

                

 

Have you ever had a girlfriend break up with you, or just drift away, and the more you tried to hold on, the further she ran from you? And the more you tried to be a good guy and please her, the more distant she became?

So what's up with that? Why does this happen?

Here's my take, after studying this stuff for years now:

It is all too easy to become a nice, overly-accommodating, predictable, boring guy, sharing “how you feel” about girl too often, and lastly you become more and more submissive. Even though it seems logical that a woman should love to be treated like a queen at all times, but this combination usually cause the girl loses that feeling of ATTRACTION that she once had for you and she usually has no way of explaining or understanding why. It will leads to a girl leave you.

I know it sounds doesn’t make sense for most of guys. It can happens because attraction is very different for women than it is for men. Men are attracted more to looks, women are attracted more to personality and character. For women, attraction is triggered by male qualities like: Dominance, Humor, Unpredictability, Adventure, Strength, Sexual Awareness, Indifference, etc.

Being nice, accommodating and understanding is great for friendships and social relationships, but it's HORRIBLE for ATTRACTION. Women doesn’t want a guy that she can push around. She doesn’t want a guy who does what she wants him to do. She doesn’t want a little boy that she can train and raise. What woman wants is a MAN.

So, it is very important to understand how attraction works for women and how to keep the attraction going when you are with her. Besides that, you must understanding yourself, don't allow yourself to act like a wussy and become boring and turn a good thing into a bad one. Instead you do the right things to keep everything on the right track.

Here are 3 simple tips what you should do to avoid getting the horrible position of losing a woman's attention :

1. Never Become Boring

Being predictable and boring is a cardinal sin when it comes to attraction. There's nothing that will kill the sparks faster than her knowing what you're about to do or say.

2. Don’t hand over control

Women like men who make decisions and take the lead. Women don’t like men that they can control, so don’t be that one.

3. Respect yourself and keep your own interests

When a guy meets a woman he likes, he often wants to spend as much time as possible with her. This is natural, but there is a big danger here as well. If you put your life aside for a woman, you will become less interesting to her. As soon as you start acting like she's going to be around forever, she'll start feeling less and less ATTRACTION for you

Now you are ready to make a big difference in your relationship with a woman you really like by applying what you have learnt in this article. The secret key is if you know how to make a woman feel ATTRACTION for you, then you can control your destiny with women. If you DON'T know how to make a woman feel ATTRACTION for you, then you cannot control your destiny with women. GOOD LUCK!

Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted nice guys? How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who did not treat her even HALF as well as you did?

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